BENUE Youth leader,Timothy Hembaor put On Blast over 3Million debts

Timothy Hembaor and John Akpereshi

A man identified as Timothy Hembaor , who calls himself the BENUE youth leader has been called out by his former friend, Mr John Akpereshi for ghosting on him after he borrowed him three million (3million) naira.

John,who was reacting to the allegations that he had invaded Timothy's home with thugs and manhandled his wife called him a liar for trying to malign his character after he paid a courtesy visit to home.

He wrote; "Timothy Hembaor, IM SO, SO SHOCKED AND HONESTLY YOU SHOULD BURY YOURSELF IN SHAME!

I wanted to honestly ignore and genuinely protect you but on a second thought, I have decided to put it bare here.

You know you have been running away from me because of N3m. There is no excuse you haven’t advanced to me, to the extent I even sometimes have to still show you pity!

I didn’t know you were actually an unrepentant criminal until today! Of all the false excuses you have been advancing and pleading with me to allow you time to pay back the money, the one that caught my attention was when you told me yesterday your wife just gave birth and you can’t even afford to buy the new born the required apparels and even good food.

I offered to come to your house but you played down. You told me you were still in Kuduna for a so-called youth summit. I asked when you were going to be back and you told me this weekend Saturday.

Somehow, as fate will have it, I ran into you at Wurukum roundabout yesterday evening. On sighting me, you accelerated your car speed. You zoomed off. I pretended I didn’t see you. I believed you were convinced I didn’t see you either! I remained calm.

I resisted equally the temptation to call you. It is a fact I never knew your house even as you had become a perpetual parasite, feeding and earning a living on my gestures from time immemorial. I can’t remember how many times I have had to go out of my way to bail you out of troubles you have constantly ran into with people.

I can’t remember or count the gestures I had extended you to cushion your domestic challenges. You have lied to me more than any young man I have met in this life but I still tolerate you and your obvious unbearable nuisances.

When you lied you were out of town and I still saw you yesterday, this morning, I was bent on taking you by surprise.

Quite true I went to your house which you never imagined I could.

Luckily, I had called Terfa Jirgba to come, drive me to your house which only this morning, i sought after and was linked up with at Welfare Quarters Kanshio. On arrival, your wife opened the door and allowed us in.

I calmly asked after you and behold, we heard the unthinkable! Your wife called out 2 of her kids she told us were thrown out of school for not paying their school fees.

She told us the last she saw you stepped your foot in that house was last week Tuesday. She decried and lamented so bitterly the hell she was actually going through! We requested to find out why she has not called to let you know we were in your house.

Your wife bluntly told us you have barred her from using phones. That she has pleaded and begged just even for the popular torchlight phone but you have refused and shut her down from the social media space too.

We were taken aback! She was of the opinion it was because she use to call and inquire about your whereabouts anytime you were no where to be seen for up almost 3 days and sometimes a week and yet, news would filter to her you were actually in town. She was visibly traumatized and agonized and she couldn’t pretend.

She said she has been actually looking out for someone like me whom she knew the husband must respect so that she would bare her mind out! She was happy I came to the house myself which she ascribed it to an act of God so that she will let me know all she has been going through! It was without saying the 3 kids I saw were significantly malnourished.

The last born which I presumed was maybe 2 months old was evidently pale and in dare need of nourishment. The burdened and traumatized woman still fending for the very unstable kids was herself so unkempt and disillusioned both physically and mentally as we saw.

I was caught up in deep sympathy and emotionally broken down! So many thoughts ran through me! Why would these boys be claiming the Big boys out there and back in the house will abandon their family in this type of unimaginable abyss.

I sincerely was shamed! Everyone who listened to Hembaor’s wife, saw her looks and that of the drained kids would have felt touched and moved to muster some succor. Characteristics of me, I reached out to the car and pulled out some palliative substance to assist cushion the lamentable sight and reality. Suddenly, we saw life returned to the dejected woman.

She started beaming with smiles and would even beckon on the other kids strolling around to “come and thank Daddy”. It became a lively scene to behold! Momentarily we saw ourselves smiling and exchanging banters.

Jirgba Terfa was handy to give us some snap shots and captured all that happened. I counseled the embattled woman, gave her words of encouragement and pleaded with her to continue keeping fate and be stronger!

I promised to reach out to her by latest evening so that she could also pay the school fees of the kids chased away from school for 2 weeks running which she opened up to us was her greatest concern at the moment.

Right there in the house, I reached out to my phone and called one of Timothy Hembaor’s brothers simply and popularly known as Dan Bor. I told him we were in Hembaor’s house and was honestly not happy with what I saw!

I decried how the kids were abandoned and all looking so horrible and unkempt including the wife. I urged and pleaded with Dan Bor to please talk to Hembaor who is still in Makurdi, sleeping around but had abandoned his family not even showing simpathy to the newly born, to please return home and attend to his family and stop lying.

Honestly what I saw in that house couldn’t even permit my concern to just even dare open up mentioning to Hembaor’s wife how his so called husband had duped me and on the run! I obviously could have compounded her travails and woes!

I conceited every thing and kept calmly. After all, we bided her farewell and left peacefully. I was once again fulfilled I had impacted a soul and brought smiles on someone’s face.

Definitely Dan Bor had called Hembaor and told him how I visited the house and equally was calling on him to come home. Rather than try to find out and even get to know of the gestures I showered in that house inspite of all Hembaor has done to me, Hembaor characteristics of him became unsettled! One, he knew since I have come to know where he was sojourning, there was going to be no more hiding place for him and his lies!

Apparently too, the very dubious and treacherous moron felt embarrassed I came to discover his emptiness from the way his abandoned family is wallowing in penury despite “ Dinning with the Big boys “ and always claiming a “ Big Boy” out there. I was definitely going to be dumbfounded. Dumbfounded I was indeed! But what actually beat my imagination to the marrows was how so suddenly, what that boy came up with on his wall! I turn to ponder; what exactly are these boys up to? Is that how you think you can earn a living?

Perpetually living a very disgusting, dishonest, controversial, untrustworthy and even thriving on unsoundly blackmail? What actually could have pushed that ingrate to this infamy! I’m actually short of words as to how these acclaimed Big outside but Empty at homes and villages boys would go to any lengths for survival! Jes!

Meanwhile, pictures doesn’t lie! This was our outing in this very treacherous boy’s house today! Thank God we captured everything! Hmmmm, Hembaor, Hembaor, Hembaor! Okay, let’s see how it goes.

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